Helmi and I often talks about the girls future..being a clingy and over protective dad, he’d have all these kind of imaginations..i thought i should be the one having all the scary thoughts..π he would talk about all of his fears of boys and if the girls would marry the right men someday.. ohhh daddy! π€¦π»βοΈ
This given some flashback of my parents decision long ago for me..After came back from US at age 16, my parents sent me and my younger sister into 1 of the girls schools in KL. All girls ya! Male – Only got uncle canteen and 1 male teacher. The rest of the teachers and staffs are all female.π Reason being, so that i stayed naive and didn’t mess with boys..pfftt ..*LOL* Mom was over-protective.she told me boys in co-ed school here are rapist..what an accusation?! *LOL* oh goshhhh, and i believed it..π€¦hahaha what nonsense, lurus bendul sangat ni.. how come my ex’s of Canadian and American boyfriends were not a rapist and yet Malaysian boys would be such..get it?! LOL ππ of course, another reason is because it is a good school and somehow a semi-English medium..it would be easier for me and my sister to catch up things..
Well…i would say it was a good initiative though..Seriously! my focus was more of academic, gymnastic, performing arts and cheerleading (all these are not in order π).. After broken up with my American boyfriend, I don’t bother having a boyfriend in Malaysia either..well, i do get letters, cards from boys (no smartphones back thenπ± ada fon dinosaur je βοΈ..suddenly, sounds so ancient) but really, i just don’t bother..until i get to college years..
Would this kind of decision works for my girls? I dunno..i’d just go with the flows..but at least I do have a dream to send them for tahfiz learnings at primary age..π if possible, an English medium tahfiz school.. high school and college? Let’s try not to think of it too much now.. daddy will get stress! Hahaha